Recently I read a short article which appeared in the publication, Pulpit Helps. The article indicated that half of the young adults in their 20’s say that marriage is not necessary to validate love or commitment in a long-term relationship. This finding came from a new online poll by Zogby International and AOL Personals. Quite frankly, we should not be surprised that so many young adults feel that way. The decline of marriage as “holy matrimony” is just another testimony to the lack of solid, Christian education.
It would be most interesting to know something about the education of those young adults. Of course, we can surmise this much. Since only about 10% of our population attends any kind of private school, it is likely that most of the young adults surveyed did not have the godly influence of a thorough Christian education. We really should not be surprised when adults do not embrace the Judeo-Christian ethic after 13 years of public education (not to mention our state universities) that is built upon a naturalistic worldview. Such an educational experience “preaches” the irrelevance of Christianity.
On the other hand, if those same young adults had experienced a thorough Christian education they would think much differently. That is not to say that every one of them would still practice moral purity, but it is to say that they would think differently about their decision. I remember when I was a young adult myself (in the late 70’s) that the idea of co-habitation was coming on strong. However, it was very common to find young couples that were embarrassed by their behavior and had intentions of getting married. They were less likely to view marriage as unnecessary even though they were living together. The decline in moral conviction is a direct result of our population being separated from the godly influence of Christian thought. No one can follow the Christian ethic if he or she does not first think like a Christian!
I am amazed that many Pastors and parents refuse to acknowledge the connection between the departure of our youth from Christianity (and the Judeo-Christian ethic) and their participation in an educational system that is divorced from Christianity. I challenge every Pastor and parent that is serious minded about actually training their sons and daughters to think like a Christian to remove their children from the influences of an ungodly educational system if at all possible. Remember this: faith, or convictions of the heart, will come either from hearing the Word of God or from hearing the philosophies of this world! But be sure of this, every young person in the formative years of life will form the convictions of their heart! Who’s convictions will they be?